A few questions

Expectations follow a sine wave..  Why ?
- enforced sine wave or natural

Why do people ignore or avoid you..

why do you feel down trodden even though you have all your friends around ?

Why are people able to mess with your feelings ?

Some introspections
- You cant make people talk to you , whenever you want
- People wont like you , the way you want them to.
- Dont bitch about others , you never know !!
- Dont try and push things too much.. they can fall around the corner and you want know !!
- Be a mime.. let people say things around you.. LISTEN and IGNORE.
- If friends ignore you , you are in trouble . But shall you invite more trouble by asking them why they did so?
- dont open your heart too much to people. they can know whats in there and mess with it.
- and last but not the least , reduce expectations even if it be on the behest of affinity/intimacy.


A lot more to add..

Ex-pect-(manifest)ations !!!

We , as human beings , usually have a habit of getting attached to our close friends.
the by-product of such affinity and attachment is that we start expecting from them.
This unduly raises the bar of performance for our friends , ironically unknown to them..

I am in the midst of the same turmoil since past few days.
When you expect something from your peers and it doesnt turn out the way you assume it to  , or people dont behave the way you want them too , you tend to get anguished by non fulfillment of your expectations.
Obviously you dont want to understand the fact that they wont know how to behave according to you.. rather why would they.. ??

So as they say .. everybody is going to hurt you one day or the other.. you just have to realise who is worth the pain.
Bear.. Persevere.. Be patient..
Let your friends be themselves..Respect the individuality..  and lower down on your expectations. Life , doesnt get better but becomes easy anyway..

P.S -: the title is a brain wave as expectations are more like manifestations of a wayward mind :)
Just another train of thought.. a barrage of such trains these days :P