We , as human beings , usually have a habit of getting attached to our close friends.
the by-product of such affinity and attachment is that we start expecting from them.
This unduly raises the bar of performance for our friends , ironically unknown to them..
I am in the midst of the same turmoil since past few days.
When you expect something from your peers and it doesnt turn out the way you assume it to , or people dont behave the way you want them too , you tend to get anguished by non fulfillment of your expectations.
Obviously you dont want to understand the fact that they wont know how to behave according to you.. rather why would they.. ??
So as they say .. everybody is going to hurt you one day or the other.. you just have to realise who is worth the pain.
Bear.. Persevere.. Be patient..
Let your friends be themselves..Respect the individuality.. and lower down on your expectations. Life , doesnt get better but becomes easy anyway..
P.S -: the title is a brain wave as expectations are more like manifestations of a wayward mind :)
Just another train of thought.. a barrage of such trains these days :P
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